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October 8, 2015 5:17 pm

‘Behind Those Murderers There Is a Society That Supports This Kind of Warfare’

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Naama and Eitam Henkin were buried on Har Hamenuchot in the Givat Shaul neighborhood of Jerusalem on Friday morning. Photo: Reemon Silverman, Tazpit News Agency.

Naama and Eitam Henkin were buried on Har Hamenuchot in the Givat Shaul neighborhood of Jerusalem on Friday morning. Photo: Reemon Silverman, Tazpit News Agency.

The following is a transcript of remarks made by Dr. Yagil Henkin at the funeral of his brother, Rabbi Eitam Henkin, who — along with his wife, Na’ama — was killed by Palestinian terrorists in front of their four children, on Oct. 1.

I want to tell you a little bit about Eitam.

Eitam was a jokester.  

I know it’s surprising to say this at a funeral, and all the more so about a rabbi and scholar who was headed for greatness, but he was a jokester, and that’s a good thing. If you want to be serious, you should also be able from time to time to make fun of yourself. A rabbi who doesn’t take himself too seriously is of great benefit to himself, but also to others. The Torah warns us that a king’s “heart shall not be raised [above his brethren].” This is the trap that awaits the rabbi, too. The greater he is, the greater the trap. Eitam’s ability not to take himself too seriously, to make fun of himself and his world, was very important.

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However, Eitam was also extremely serious. For years, I insisted that our family have alternating generations: one generation of rabbis, then one of PhDs, and so on. Then came Eitam and ruined my joke, since he decided to be both a rabbi and a PhD, and he excelled in both fields. He didn’t write in order to be promoted, but because he couldn’t stop writing, since he had something to say and it was important for him to say it. Moreover, Eitam had the intellectual and moral integrity that a serious rabbi must have. This is the integrity needed at the moment when the rabbi wishes to reach a particular (Halakhic) conclusion; and he knows that, if he manipulates the texts for his purposes, he can reach his desired conclusion, and perhaps even receive rounds of applause. But then, the small voice of his conscience intervenes and tells him, “But that isn’t the truth.” And since he knows the truth, he sticks to it. This isn’t easy, but that was Eitam’s integrity.

He was only 31 when he was murdered; in his too-few years, he managed to write two halakhic works and one historical work; and if not for his murder, he would have added many more books in both fields. And when that happened, I would have had to deal not only with people correcting me when I say “Eitam” to call him instead “Rabbi Eitam,” but with people who would have directed me to call him “Harav HaGaon Professor Eitam.” If, on top of that, we were to add that he also played guitar better than me, the situation would have been dire indeed. Well, I wish these were my problems now, and not what we have to deal with today.

I am sure during the shivah [The Jewish traditional mourning period of one week after the funeral], I will hear many stories about Eitam. Some will be familiar; some will sound familiar; and some will probably fit someone else (yes, press reporters, you who moved him to a different residence, gave him an additional two children and recruited him retroactively to an elite army unit, I am speaking also about you). At a shivah you always tell the positive stories, minus a few embarrassing events, like for example a fire following which Eitam was expelled from some high school. But I don’t need the shivah to know that he was the most talented of us brothers, an extremely talented individual in general. He was full of knowledge, but not full of himself. He was a phenomenal father and husband, who knew how to balance his family and his learning and his various occupations.

The Torah world lost one of the great rabbis and leaders of the next generation, and the academic world lost an excellent researcher. And I lost a brother, which you can imagine, isn’t less important for me.

However, this is not the only reason you all came here [today]. The many people who are here, and the reason we eulogize during the Succot holiday, as distinct from the usual Halakhic ruling, is that it was not “blind fate” which took the lives of Eitam and Na’ama. They are “Harugei Malchut,” the term used for those who died as part of the unceasing struggle of the Jewish people. If you go to Mt. Herzl, you will discover that the first person to die from “hostile acts” buried there is Rabbi Shlomo Zalman Tzoref, who was murdered 164 years ago. This means, from the perspective of the state of Israel, that the national struggle of the Jewish people did not begin 67 years ago with the establishment of the state of Israel. Nor did the murderous acts against Jews commence with the 1948 Declaration of Independence. Those acts were the consequence of hostility to the notion of the Jews returning to their ancient homeland and living there as a people.

Eitam and Na’ama became involuntary fighters in this struggle. Eitam and Naama are persons slain by acts of hostility. They are not “terror victims.”

Do not call them “terror victims;” do not say that Israel has a war on terror.

Israel has no war on terror. There was never a war on terror, and never will be such war. Bernard Lewis, the great Middle East scholar, once said (regarding the U.S.’s “Global War on Terror”), that to declare war on terror is comparable to imagining Churchill, in the dark days of 1940, declaring in his famous speech to parliament something along the lines of: “We are fighting against submarines and warplanes, against tanks, against bayonets, against guns and three inch mortars! We will fight them on the beaches…”

Technically this would have been correct. It would have also been complete nonsense. It was not the planes that fought the battle of Britain, but the pilots, British and German, and the nations, Britain and Germany, which sent them. Britain was fighting Nazi Germany, not planes and not submarines.

There is no such thing as “terror of stones,” just like there is no “terror by individuals,” no “car terror,” nor is Jerusalem “plagued by stone-throwing.” By the same token, Eitam and Na’ama were not murdered  (in contrast to a headline on a certain media site) by a passing car firing at them.

These are all methods, not enemies. Terror is a tool. The one who uses terror is the enemy. Terror is the enemy’s tactic; knives and bullets are its weapons. To say, “We fight terror” is to say, “We do not know who the enemy is; or we are not willing to define [him] as such.” In other words, “We have no strategy.”

Do not fight terror, fight those who dictate it. I don’t mean, God forbid, to call for acts of vengeance against innocents Arabs. I’m also not implying that we should give up on war ethics and rules of engagement. My intention is that we should not pretend that there is no hostility, hatred, ideology or agencies who manage terror. Nor should we pretend that there is no widespread support for terror. We should not forget that there is a religious and national conflict that has laid and continues to lay the foundation for terrorism.

We ourselves rightly say, “We should not be like them.” Then why do we lie to ourselves and say that there are no “them,” that there is no enemy but only an abstract and faceless “terror”? If we are fighting “terror,” then who are “they”?

Do not promise that our hands will reach the murderers. Behind those murderers there is a society that supports this kind of warfare; a society that supports targeting civilians; a society that supports finishing off a young couple. (Thank God, their children were not hurt; but do not credit the murderers with “mercy.”) The murderers are the hangmen. But those who preach, “Here is a Jew and therefore he deserves death,” will not be imprisoned. And those who today give candy to children in order to celebrate the murder in cold blood of two more Jews, will pay no price.

Eitam and Na’ama were not killed by “terror.” They are victims of an act of hostility. It was hostility behind the murder. Human beings driven by hatred went out to the road in order to murder Jews, and they succeeded. They took my brother from me and from my siblings; from Yishai, they took his sister, Na’ama; from my parents and from Na’ama’s parents they took their children; from the children — Matan, Nitzan, Neta and Itamar — they took their parents. They took the right to grow up in a family, with the experiences and memories of a warm, unified and loving family. They took from you, who stand here, a talented and optimistic couple, who were destined to greatness. And they continue to take from everyone the sense of security. They were Arab murderers, backed by a too-large segment of Arab society, with far too little principled opposition to murder. An enemy. An enemy who utilizes terror.

Do not degrade their memory by turning them into victims of a force of nature. Debate about policy, not about the murdered. Do not find justification and sympathy for murderers. Keep your empathy for the children, who were orphaned, to the parents who were left bereft. And for the people of Israel, who still have a long way to go before being able to sit peacefully beneath their vines and fig trees.

There can be no compensation for our loss. It is a personal loss, an open hole which will never be filled. Most of you are not here because of it. You are here because, as the Babylonian Talmud says, “When permission is given to the destroyer to destroy, he does not distinguish between the righteous and the evil.” And how can he distinguish? The destroyer is so evil, he has no clue about what is good. He is evil to the bone, “And all of the thoughts of his heart are only evil all day.” What can he know about goodness? Nor does he care.

Eitam and Na’ama, few and good were the years of your life, but they did not reach those of your fathers in their homeland. Woe to a generation where parents are burying their children!

There is a verse from Isaiah that is customarily quoted in funerals: “He will swallow up death forever, and God will wipe away tears from all faces.” The conclusion of this verse is no less important, nationally and not just personally. Here is the full verse: “He will swallow up death forever, and God will wipe away tears from all faces; and He will remove his people’s shame from upon the entire earth, because God has spoken.”

And He will remove his people’s shame from upon the entire earth, because God has spoken!

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  • Atilla

    Tragedies such as this show the immediate need for all Israeli security services to shoot to kill at the slightest sign of any attack.

    And for the immediate expulsion of ALL ‘Palestinians’ from Israel’s borders.

  • And because that society that is behind the murderers it is exactly what I have been saying for the longest time, the immediate and extended families of all the murderers/terrorists have to be deported and their homes demolished, only then will you see that the parents will take a more active role in properly bringing up their children.

    • Sheila wolfe

      Yes but deported where?. Hell I would hope. No one wants them.

  • You are so very, very right, Sir! Thank you.

  • michelle kahn

    BS”D. May HaShem embrace the neshamot of Eitam and Ne’ama and hold them close beside the kisay hakavod.

  • A society that supports this kind of warfare is a “Culture of Death.” There must be a policy change where a Jewish “Culture of Life” is completely restored in Judea, Samaria, and Gaza. And “all that is necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

  • nelson marans

    Until the culture of the Palestinian Arabs change drastically and this is not likely as the media and their schools are filled with both anti-Israel and anti-Semitic propaganda, Israel has no option but to have complete access to the terrorists’ hideouts in the Palestinian Territories.
    Since such change is highly unlikely to occur, there can be no Palestinian Arab state, despite the international pressure orchestrated by our president.

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