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June 9, 2016 3:45 am

Would You Convert Like Yitro?

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A Torah scroll. Photo: Wiki Commons.

A Torah scroll. Photo: Wiki Commons.

As we are confronted with a serious increase in the number of Jews who have not only left the fold, but are actively involved in anti-Jewish sentiments inside and outside of Israel, it would perhaps be meaningful to study an episode in the life of a biblical non-Jew who decided to join the Jewish people at all costs.

Reading the story of Yitro (Shemot, ch. 18.) — Moshe’s father-in-law and one of the earliest converts to Judaism — is a challenge not only to many anti-Jewish Jews, but also to those who are actively living a Jewish religious life but lack the intensity and passion for Judaism and its message. For sensitive souls, Yitro’s story is not just a significant narrative, but also a painful confrontation with one’s own Jewishness.

After many years of separation, Moshe and Yitro meet again. Moshe had married Yitro’s daughter Tzipora many years earlier, but had then left his father-in-law’s home and gone back to Egypt to redeem his people. Subsequently, he took the Jews out of Egypt and miraculously led them through the Red Sea. Once the exodus had been realized, Yitro, Tzipora and her children were able to meet him again. The text tells us that this meeting took place in the wilderness:

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Yitro, Moshe’s father-in-law, came with [Moshe’s] sons and wife to the desert, where Moshe was staying…” (Shemot, ch. 18.)

What, asks Rashi, is the importance of knowing that they met in the desert? Rashi answers that this points to the tremendous sacrifice Yitro made when he decided to become a Jew:

He lived in a world of glory. Yet, his heart moved him to go out to the wilderness and hear the words of the Torah” (Ibid. v. 5, Rashi.).

Indeed, tradition teaches us that Yitro was a man of great wealth. He had held the prestigious post of high priest in Midian, comparable to the position of pope in Rome today. He was surrounded with servants, glory and abundance. The verse now informs us that he gave up all of this to go to a “desert,” a place where he would no longer have any of these honors. He had decided to convert. In many ways, this was a catastrophic decision. All the glory and prestige would be gone. Instead of holding the post of high priest and playing a crucial role in world affairs, he would now be an ordinary Jew, sliding into oblivion. He would become one among many Jews, no longer a man in his own right, just “the father-in-law of Moshe.”

In fact, our tradition continues to provide us with remarkable information about this sweeping decision. Yitro had become an outcast among his own people. After having rejected all forms of religion and philosophy known in his day, he was banned and abandoned by the societies in which he lived. He had turned into a “lonely man of faith” (taken from the title of one of Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik’s books). Once he heard about the exodus from Egypt, the splitting of the Red Sea and the soon-to-come revelation of the Divine Teaching at Sinai, everything else seemed of secondary importance. Only this moved him: to be part of the Jewish people and participate in their Torah experience. The price was indeed enormous.

Yitro confronts us for the first time with a new phenomenon: to be a Jew by choice. And, by doing so, he presents all Jews with a major challenge: how to become a Jew by choice even when one has been born into the fold; how to feel the fire needed to live the life of an authentic Jew, as Yitro did. Such an undertaking is possible only if one is able to re-enact and experience Yitro’s journey to Judaism.

It must have been a long and difficult road, a heart-rending challenge in which there were many ups and downs before finally arriving at the top. Along the way, Yitro must have had countless fiery conflicts with his former friends and colleagues, and he surely felt terribly lonely. He was plagued by doubts and inner conflicts before he was able to become a Jew. Like a baby taking its first steps, he most likely tried to engage the world of Torah and its spirit, undergoing its hardships before experiencing its joy. How many times must he have nearly thrown in the towel in despair, only to continue his struggle until he overcame all obstacles and took the final, crucial and radical step: to be a Jew and nothing but a Jew; to experience the incredible joy that accompanies it.

For many of us who were born into the fold, Yitro’s desire to become a Jew is a major problem. It hits us in the face. It’s a challenge to all those among us who left the fold, opting for a comfortable secular life style. We must ask ourselves why a non-Jew would be prepared to give up everything to become Jewish, and what is there in Judaism that makes a non-Jew conclude that it surpasses everything else. These questions should plague each one of us.

But also for those of us who are religiously observant, Yitro’s engagement with Judaism is a big challenge, posing questions such as: Am I in love with Judaism as much as Yitro was? Am I prepared to give up everything, including wealth, honor and social standing? Would I have been prepared to exchange my prestigious position in the world for a life in the desert, ridiculed by old friends and colleagues?

Yitro forces each one of us to ask ourselves whether we would have opted for Judaism had we not been born Jewish. And if yes, would this not mean that we would have had to start all over again, discovering it on our own so as to comprehend what it is really all about? If Yitro traveled his road to Judaism step by step in order to fully grasp its beauty and truth, we may have to re-engage ourselves with every mitzvah as if we have never done it before, as real beginners. Only that way can we become “Jews by choice,” real Jews. Perhaps we should begin a process by which we take hold of every mitzvah that we have been observing for years and transform it into something radically new, as if we have never observed it before.

It is told of the great Jewish philosopher and baal teshuva Franz Rosenzweig (1886-1929) that in his earlier days, when he was still on his way to becoming a real Jew, he was once asked whether he put ontefillin. “Not yet,” was his answer. Although he may not have felt ready at the time to take on this great mitzvah, he made it clear that he looked forward to the day when wearing tefillin would become a truly religious experience. Surely this does not mean that we should wait until we are fully ready. After all, it was Rosenzweig himself who taught that it is in the deed that one hears the mitzvah. Only when one actually does a mitzvah can one hear and feel its profundity. But what it does mean is that when one just goes through the motions of putting on tefillin, one has not yet authentically performed the mitzvah. Only when one approaches it as a novice, as did Yitro, can one experience its full power. Not out of tradition or habit, but out of a genuine desire to fulfill the word of God.

This is the road that Yitro took, which led him to realize the enormous religious profundity of Judaism, of each and every mitzvah, for which he was prepared to give up everything. As such, he poses a challenge to each of us.

The famous non-Jewish, British, literary historian A.L. Rowse (1903-1997) gave added meaning to Yitro’s decision when he wrote at the end of his memoirs: “If there is any honour in all the world that I should like, it would be to be an honorary Jewish citizen” (A. L. Rowse, Historians I Have Known (London: Duckworth, 1995, p. 204.). For him, it remained an unfulfilled dream. For many Jews, it is a reality never dreamed about and consequently unappreciated.

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  • Jay Lavine

    All Jews should be Jews by choice, real Jews, as stated in this article. Judaism is a state of doing and of believing, not just of being. We should define Jews as people who follow a Jewish way of life, a philosophy and belief system that guides one in all aspects of one’s life, whatever that might mean to an individual.

    Being Jewish means giving up the love for money, status, and hedonistic, meaningless pleasures. These are idols that are incompatible with Judaism. Indeed, histapkut bamu’at, satisfaction with the little one has, is a cardinal value and virtue of Judaism. By the way, the desert is not so bad a place. It is a jewel of Creation, teeming with life and other miracles of nature, if only we will open (pokeach) our eyes and ears to them.

    The world of Judaism is in dire need of rejuvenation. We don’t want to recruit Jews, but let’s not discourage prospective Jews too much either. These committed individuals may well represent the future of Judaism.

    Thank you for this excellent article.

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